It Might Not Be What You Think.
Appearances, first impressions, that initial glance. We are attracted to physicality initially. She’s cute, or he has beautiful eyes, or that little girl is adorable! But are we doing ourselves a disservice? Is that really what we should be focused on? Should we be encouraging ourselves to focus on preconceived, pre-formed plastic molds of perfection that somehow we’re meant to “be?” I think not. I think beauty is so much more than a perfect nose and full lips. It’s the smile behind those lips and the character under our skin that makes for a meaningful relationship. So ask yourself next time you see that cute guy, ask yourself what’s under that physical appearance. You may not take a second look.